Oh how does one be responsible consistently.

It's weird right. I'm able to do things like Washing dishes and do my laundry, but I can't be asked to do basic room organizing or simple cleaning.

When I'm given responsibility from my Dad I can sometimes do it, but then other times I seem to fall short hard.

It's mostly to a point where he and pretty much most of my family believe I can't really hold down an actual job in the real world.

Same with following directions from others. I can only sometimes do it. Other times though I simply misunderstand or even silently disagree with how something should be done and purposely not do as someone says.

Basically my problem is twofold how can I remain responsible in all situations, and how can I just follow orders and directions without bundling everything up.