How do you deal with being attracted to women that arent good for you?

I'm attracted to women that are objectively bad for me, and I seem have zero interest in the ones that are sweet and available. I know WHY its happening (childhood/scarcity/ect) I just dont know what to do about it. I've shot down multiple women now that were genuinely beautiful/sweet because I couldnt force the interest and im tired of only being attracted to the ones that hurt me to be around.