How durable is this refined calf/cow leather?

Hey my Coach lovers!

Does anyone have experience with these items and can tell me about their durability?

I recently bought the Refined Essential Card Case in the colour maple. Absolutely gorgeous, very soft leather that feels great. My boyfriend loves it too and I was planning to get him the black one for christmas.

Now another item I am looking to buy is the Essential Slim Card Case Wallet. Ive watched tons of TikToks on it and was convinced it would be my next wallet. Untill I came across a video of a girl showing how hers looked after 6 months and it was seriously beat up. Extremely scratched up and the leather started creasing.

Now it seems that the card cases use the same leather as the wallet. Should I choose a different card holder for my boyfriend? I want to get him something durable..

Would appreciate any insight. Thanks in advance!