Best Controller for a Big-Handed XBOX Neanderthal?

I have large hands and do not care much for the "premium" controller features like Gyro and back paddles. In the case of paddles, I'm sure I may find a use for them, but I don't want them in the way, so they're a plus but nothing big. I am taking a week and a half off work to play Monster Hunter Wilds, so I need something good!

I NEED a controller that feels good like the XBOX One controller, where it doesn't feel like super super cheap plastic. I do not live near anywhere to test these controllers in person... So I'm throwing out hope for a controller that's hopefully under $100.

My top priorities in a controller are:

  1. Rumble. Charging a Great Sword hit and feeling the controller shake is 1/2 the fun!
  2. Premium feeling triggers. I don't know what to call it, but when they don't just sink down when I press them. I want to hold them down.
  3. XBOX One similar ergonomics/size. Fits great in the hands.
  4. Needs passable PC integration, as I exclusively game on PC.

I think when it comes to face buttons and joysticks, I haven't ever felt something great. So at the moment, ignorance is bliss! As long as its passable.

EDIT: Hoping for under $100, I live in New England in the U.S.A.