I was not aware that there was sooo much resentment and vitriol from black women towards black men....

Listening to this Ana person, there seems to be alot of hatred and racism towards black men from black women. Makes me much more sympathetic to the stats of single moms in the black community. Who would want to be in a relationship with someone that holds such deep resentment towards you. I would leave aswell.

Assuming that she represents a relevant amount of black women (I take the response to Kevin Samuels death as an indication that she is not an outlyer).