9w8 or 8w9? or something else?

Hello, I have a brutal sense of honesty, I will tell people whatever I think about them, even if it could have adverse consequences. I don't do this because I'm a saint, just because I don't want to bother lying to people. Also, I enjoy watching people get angry or lose control of themselves, especially when this is because of their own doing. I have been reading about type 9's and this all seems antagonistic to type 9, although I can relate very much to the type 9's calmness and need for calm.

How do you guys differentiate between 9w8 and 8w9? I have strong type 5 as well.