I'm never going to my local LGBT+ center again.

Every time I go, I always get seen as a trans guy. I always get pushed to be more active and come by more often and go to all these trans events and groups. No matter how many times I've told the people I talk to normally that I'm stealth and extremely dysphoric about being seen as trans and reminded of my unfortunate birth circumstance. I had a bad day today and I'm so tired of my job, so I asked about what kind of jobs they have, and I was told I should volunteer to help with a trans day of visibility thing and I should apply specifically to the trans section of the center. I was even introduced to some people as a trans guy.

Why can nobody accept that I don't want people to know I was born without a penis!? Why do they not take no for an answer?

I literally just want to be a man. Full stop. Nothing else. No addatives. Nothing different. It's not fair t hat not only was I born with a fucked up body, but nobody, not transphobes, not allies, not other trans people, wants me to put it behind me and move on with my life. I am chained to this bullshit.

And it's not even like I'm not passing or something. They just knew me pre-transition, and I kept getting introduced as a trans man, and I came to them one time for help with a transition thing. Everyone there knows I'm trans because nobody understands stealth I guess :/