TLDR for The Explosive Child?

My son is 3 and he checks almost all the boxes for the problems that he has and how he struggles to meet our expectations. But a lot of the advice seems geared towards older kids. I can't get my son to sit down and talk to me about his feelings or work with me through them. During, before, or after. I eventually stopped reading because none of the scenarios were really relatable and it was taking too long to get to the "how to help the child".

Maybe I didn't give it enough of a chance but as the mom of a feral child I don't get a lot of downtime to read lol

Can someone help me out here?

So I know what he struggles with and I have no idea how to build the skills he needs to overcome those struggles.

• has difficulty with transitions
• has difficulty being told no
• has difficulty controling impulses
• has difficulty regulating emotions when he doesn't get what he wants
• has difficulty expressing how he feels
• has difficulty expressing anger without using violence or being destructive

I also want to add that he is a stimulus junkie and constantly on the move from one task to the next. Also physically. Jumping running etc. apparently though he is a perfect angel at daycare, always has been.

Anyway, advice most appreciated. Tia.