Shocked the way so many people don’t like Ruth

She cooks her family like 4 course meals and lets her kids shack up at her house no questions asked multiple times throughout the series while they lowkey treat her like a doormat, because she’s a good mother, and the beginning and end of her character’s analysis is that she is childish or a bully. Never mind that this is all in the wake of her husbands death. I feel like there is a lot of selflessness and contribution to her family and the lives of those around her that must be looked past to only focus on the occasional outbursts and petty behavior for a woman who has functioned primarily as a housewife since she was 19. Would love to know the demographics of the viewers who have zero empathy for her character - I think she’s just as complex as the rest of the cast!