TRIGGER WARNING: Be careful with men who PRETEND to be okay with you being trans
You can get robbed because they know the police won't do anything for us. Or you can simply get scammed. I have had countless Nigerian princes and sheikhs trying to scam me on Facebook. I would tell them I was trans, just to see how far they would go, and they knew what to tell me. They said they saw me as a woman and that it made no difference. Then they proceeded to ask for gift cards. Of course, I was playing them, but a lot of trans women take things at face value.
There are several scenarios when a guy says he is okay with you being trans:
- He will use you as an inert sex doll, but won't date you
- He will ambush you and rob you
- He will make fun of you with his friends
- He is not sure about your T and he's pretending he is cool with it and wants to get your admission (see below).
Just because a man says he is okay with you being trans, it doesn't mean he truly is. You should read this comment I found on YouTube.
When I was paying for my studies, I had to work as a tutor. This was before my ffs. A few parents weren't sure whether I was trans or not, so they asked me and told me it would make no difference. And dumb me would admit. I was so stupid. They always ended up ghosting me and not hiring me. You know, I had to pay my bills. Then, I started lying and things went well and I made enough money to afford my FFS. Just don't be naive. Don't take what people say at face value.
