Being ugly as a woman really sucks

Being an ugly woman sucks so much. No one gives me a chance to "prove" my worth, they just dismiss me the instant they see me. I know I'm a decent person with a decent personality and that I'd make a decent partner, but those qualities seem to be useless without good looks. I'm quite intelligent, I'm kind and empathetic, I'm witty and can keep a conversation flowing, I'm studying in a promising field, yet no one has ever wanted to be my partner, which really sucks as I'm reaching my mid 20's. Never had a boyfriend, never kissed anyone, never even been on a date, never been asked out. Guys just look at me and go "no", and then that door is closed. And yes, I've tried doing the asking, and I've gotten rejected every time.

I'm fucking invisible, and not only in the dating world. In group settings people don't even look at me when talking because apparently I'm too discomfiting to behold. Even my supervisor chooses to talk primarily to my more attractive classmate when speaking to us both, despite me being engaged in the conversations. I ask a question, and it's answered as if someone else presented it. It's like I don't even exist. My own best friend has now ditched me to simp on someone with a very similar personality but better looks.

And no, losing weight will not help. I'm already fit. When I say ugly, I mean actually ugly. I mean bad face structures that only surgery might fix-ugly. I also already have a good dressing style, so theres that. There's literally nothing more I can change. And I don't want to wear makeup to the point of cat fishing for someone to find me date-worthy.

Before any of you go "it sucks to be an ugly guy too" yeah I'm sure it sucks and that you guys face similar problems, but honestly, how many of you know of ugly women finding hot boyfriends? Because personally I can't think of a single case, but the opposite exists in abundance. It is of my opinion that women do give men with nice personalities a chance, but the opposite happens very rarely.

And please don't tell me that "attractive people face issues too" like yeah I know, obviously it must suck to always have someone drooling over you but come on, would someone attractive ever choose to be ugly? No. Never. And I think that that alone is enough answer to the question of whether it's better to be pretty or ugly. It really sucks to be an ugly woman when beauty is the one characteristic that society expects the most from the female gender.

End of rant, thanks for reading.

Edit:

I did not expect this to gain so much traction. This is the most male attention I'll ever get lol.

Thanks to everyone leaving kind comments and messages, I really appreciate it. I'm not going to reply to everyone because the sheer amount of comments is frankly very overwhelming, sorry, but please know that I'm very thankful for your kindness.

A lot of people are asking for pictures but seeing as this post has been viewed by over 2 million people in just a few hours I'll pass (if someone I know were to see this my remaining confidence would evaporate and I might just start digging a hole to bury myself in now). But I can reassure you that I own a mirror (more than one, actually) and can conclude that I'm most definitely on team unattractive.

On another note, a lot of people seem devoid of basic reading comprehension which is a little concerning. I brought up the comparison between men and women dating a hotter partner only to make the point that women seem more likely to give an ugly guy a chance. Some people took that as a personal offence and berated me for not going for ugly guys. Well, as a matter of fact, I would. If we got along well I would date an ugly guy, and I would probably find him becoming more attractive to me.

Regarding the "ugly women have it more difficult" part - I simply meant it as in ugly women are dismissed quicker than ugly men. In a professional setting especially, an ugly woman may be seen as incompetent due to not being able to present an attractive look. I know that men struggle too and I feel for you guys, I just don't believe you are judged as harshly as women based only on looks.

Finally, to the person asking to "make out with my ass": I'll pass, but the DM got a confused chuckle out of me so thanks I guess.