Explain to me long term breastfeeding

Those of you who breastfed your baby past a year - how did you do it? How often did you feed your baby and when did you start dropping to only a feed or two a day? When you left your baby with a sitter, would you still pump while away? If so, how often? When did you stop drinking water like it’s your job? If you struggled with low libido from breastfeeding, did it start to go away once you only did a feed a day?

ETA: Oh my goodness! I wasn’t expecting so many responses. Thank you SO MUCH for sharing your experiences. I look forward to reading through all of these and getting some good strategies for moving forward! 🥰