Ranting about someone in my life who is an INFJ.
Okay, so, like, I'm not saying all INFJs are like this, but I’m just venting about my personal experience with what I think is an unhealthy INFJ. Seriously, sometimes I just wanna scream. It’s like, dealing with a walking contradiction, ya know? They claim they're the 'least judgmental type ever,' and then proceed to judge everything! They have this need to be seen as like, super competent, but honestly, where's the proof? They want everyone to see their point of view, but they're completely unwilling to listen to anyone else's. One time, I even said, 'I think you might be right,' and they just snapped back, 'I am right.' And get this, they straight up said, 'I don’t believe in compromise. It’s my way or the highway.' Like, seriously? But the little things are just as bad. 'I don’t really wear hats,' they say, and then three weeks later, they're wearing a hat! And don't even get me started on their dating advice! They literally think all their friends should date someone just like them. It's like living with someone who’s constantly judging you, but they can't even see their own flaws. And the worst part? They have no clue how they make you feel. Blind. Completely blind. Like you’re invisible. I just wish… I just wish they’d see me. The real me. Not the version they’ve created in their head.