Giving up online dating

I have had experiences za online dating but this one took me off the radar completely mpaka nikahama. So I had been active on these dating sites with a fire bio and pics, swiped left on quite a number of hotties and all that.

I matched with several but one caught my attention cz he legit suggested a meet up. If you've been on there you know its usually exchange of numbers, whatsapp then ghost😂. Anyway nikakubali and we set a date for a Friday after work. I dressed up cz you know you wanna leave a good impression. At about 6pm the guy arrived in CBD so we met up, he's tall and lean just as I had expected when swiping right. We hugged, he took my hand and led me to where he had parked his car, right outside my office building. We stopped next to a neon green Nissan march, akafungua tukaingia. I had nothing against his car, was just excited to get to know him.

Nikakaa shotgun waiting for him to start the car, naona mtu anaweka key chini anaanza kuongea. I assumed he just wants to talk a little before we go. Heh! Like 50 mins later we are still talking. The conversation is good but now I'm getting hungry, so i voice my concern. All he says is, "unataka kuenda, kwani utafika kama washamaliza food?" i take it as a joke kumbe mtu ako serious. 2 hours later I'm now bored feeling cramped up in the little space and rather hungry, everytime i suggest kula anasema we talk a little more, like dude will you not buy me food or even a snack, I'm starving!!. Anyway eventually nikachoka and I insisted on leaving, made up an excuse. The guy escorted me mpaka kwa stage ya mat za mtaa, like that! I was so shocked and confused, i would have bought a meal but being a baby girl nimezoea kununuliwa tu, yaani sikua na kapesa pia. Nikaenda tu home but next day I texted him a piece of my mind na akakula block.

Dating needs money y'all and also guys, buy her food, ata kama ni kasmocha aki, muhimu