He was so into me at first, then suddenly cold - done wasting my energy.

At first, he was really into me. We met on Blued, vibed instantly, and moved off the app. We had long conversations, and he seemed genuinely interested. Even when he was busy, he would still check in, and I felt like we were building something solid.

Then, over time, things shifted. He had exams, and I understood he’d be occupied, but I still tried to keep things alive. Our conversations became less frequent, and the effort was only coming from my side. I even sent him gifts on Valentine’s—he hesitantly accepted them and sent something back, but the enthusiasm was gone.

After his major exams ended, I expected at least some effort from him. Instead, I got a notification that he was active on Blued, talking to others. When I confronted him, he mocked me instead of being honest. He called me things like “a clown,” “a teen,” and completely dismissed my feelings. It wasn’t just cold—it was disrespectful.

That was my wake-up call.

I’m done wasting energy on people who don’t match my effort. I won’t beg for respect. I won’t chase people who don’t value me. Instead, I’m putting all that energy into myself—my fitness, my mindset, my life.

I know this experience will only make me stronger, smarter, and completely unshakable. He thinks he got the last laugh? Nah. He’ll see me thrive, and by the time he realizes what he lost, I’ll be so far ahead he won’t even matter anymore.

So here’s to the next phase: the glow-up, the grind, the self-focus. I’m not looking back. Just moving forward. 🚀