anyone else receiving extremely rude responses from people here?

Whenever I ask a question in this Reddit community I always get the rudest responses. Just simple questions I get answered by people with quite bitchy attitudes acting as if I should know EVERYTHING about pregnancy so far. I’m having my first and all I’m doing is looking for advice or asking for some support like this Reddit’s meant to be for and I get told to see a therapy half the time as if I need one. Is anyone else having the same issue? Is my posts just being shown to the wrong people? I really need this community but I feel like it’s too toxic to stay in. What happened to mothers support mothers? This isn’t attacking everyone btw I’m sure theres loads of sweet people on this Reddit just majority don’t seem to care how they make a mother feel all the want is an excuse to be judgmental or tell you you’re not fit to be a mum.