Gtfo
I have been stripping for 7+ years. I moved to a new city this year and have been working in my club for 10 months. I just moved in with my friend of a few years, it’s our first time living together. Soon after moving in, she auditioned at the club I work at. She didn’t ask me first how I felt about it. She has never worked in clubs before. She got hired, and started taking shifts at my club. We only have about 8-10 girls per shift. It’s a regulars club, and not somewhere I would hustle with a friend. I’m a private person and love to feel anonymous at work, and I felt more and more uncomfortable with it as time went on. She’s naive in this industry and doesn’t know the etiquette, and I’m jaded. She’s sat with my customers and asked them for dances. I asked her to not overlap with me because I need work and home to be more separate. Now we have to coordinate our schedules, and navigate all these dynamics with work. I just want her to find a different club. I asked her to, and she said I’m trying to gate keep this one. She said she would look but isn’t making any promises. I really love our friendship. I love her. This feels so weird and disrespectful, but I’ve also been going through a lot. Idk what to do. I like where I work, I’ve worked consistently to build a clientele of regulars there. It’s a competitive workplace and job in general and it feels so stressful for us both to live together and work at the same place. I feel shut down at home and resentful that she disturbed my peace with work. What do I do?