The other side of ghosting

I have ghosted an SB. She sent a message checking in on me about 2 weeks ago, but I didn’t reply.

Why, you ask. Well, we had spent a weekend away together. She physically hurt me during sex. I tried explaining it to her twice, but she dismissed me and asserted that she knew what she was doing.

Now, I know better than arguing with a woman who doesn’t listen and I know the dangers of saying no to a woman who doesn’t understand consent. While on a trip.

It’s not like I could leave her stranded either.

But in order to reply to her recent message, I’d have to have a lengthy conversation about so many concepts she’s oblivious to and… is it worth it?

Yes, she’s a person, she deserves better. But why am I the one tasked with teaching her? There will be so much bickering over stupid things, just because egos get bruised when you say people are wrong. And when you know they are in the wrong, why do I have to prove it?

No. I value my own sanity, my own time. I’d rather spend it here writing this to be honest. At least some of you will relate. The chances of her getting it though, are slim.

Ps. This is totally valid with the genders reversed.

(Edit) Pps. Thank you all for the wonderful comments