What’s the misunderstanding about you that annoys you the most?

For me, it's the assumption that I’m uninterested or detached just because I don’t wear my thoughts and feelings on my sleeve. Apparently, if I don’t express every fleeting emotion with dramatic flair, I must be cold and uncaring. In reality, I’m just processing things in my own way. I prefer to think things through carefully before I engage, which means I'm not disengaged—I’m just taking my time to figure things out. But apparently, “thinking” doesn’t look as exciting as “reacting immediately.” Go figure.

Another gem is the idea that I don’t like socializing or being around people. Sure, I need alone time to recharge, but that doesn’t mean I’m avoiding everyone. I do enjoy meaningful conversations and value deep connections, but small talk? That’s the social equivalent of running on a treadmill for an hour. I’m not anti-social; I just prefer discussions that don’t leave me questioning why we’re talking about the weather yet again. So, when I’m quiet, it’s not because I’m plotting an escape—it’s because I’m mentally debating whether or not this conversation is worth the energy.

Anyone else feel misunderstood just because they approach things a little differently?