Carmela OCD?
Is Carmela OCD? She's constantly cleaning and folding. Even when she's talking with Tony, the kids, Furio, etc, she's self soothing with folding and flattening a towel, drying a cup, wiping a counter. And when she isn't, she's interrupting someone else's peace by bitching them about a "mess" she asked them to clean up. She also has to totally disrupt anybody to ask a simple question.
Could it possibly be hyperactivity? She's almost never sitting down either.
I'm a single guy and keep my house nice, so don't bitch and complain at me about mishogony or whatevah.